For about 3 years I have liked this guy. He is kind , respectful of everyone ( especially his mum and sisters ) and most importantly a christian! This makes it so easy to tell yourself that God would be encouraging the interest. The thing is ,I just can't get him out of my head. Infact , sometimes I get worried that I focus on him more than God , which is wrong. :frown: I've prayed to God so many times about giving me the thoughts and feelings towards the guy , that will help me along God's plan for me, but I havn't noticed any change. I'm finding it really hard to put God first in all of this. Even when I go to church and youth weekly, I question whether I'm more excited about God , or about seeing this person! Does anyone have advice on how to handle this?